". . .But if the friend hurts you too many times, even after you tell them what theyve done each time, even after they say theyve realised their mistake & apologises profusely & say theyll make it up to you & promises they wont hurt you anymore, I dont see why you should give that friend another chance. You say theyve hurt you & friend apologises. You try & work things out. But then it happens again. Why bother.

I dont see whats wrong in you wanting to be selfish, to be headstrong & say enough is enough. That you need to think of yourself now. That you should stay away. No no, that they should stay away. Fool me once shame on me, fool me twice I must be stupid.

I believe it is possible for some things to be broken beyond repair. I dont see how its possible for friendships to occur when one side is unwilling to be friends with the other. I dont see why anyone would be so desperate to be just friends with someone. I really dont.

I especially dont see why when youre happy, someone must come along & try & rain on your parade & then question you how making them happy would make you unhappy. I dont see why they cant just let it go & let you be happy. If they cared for you at all, wouldnt they rather just see you happy. Maybe they just need something to help them sleep at night. Who knows. I really dont. . ."

quoted from Huda's blog,
guess it explains everything, dont it?